LOVE , ROMANCE & RELATIONSHIPS

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Comment by foreverJCgal E Hadassah on May 20, 2009 at 9:49am

Lol, Naima, i liked your tips for gals, post. That was nice.

Comment by Naima on May 14, 2009 at 1:44am

any one who is really in love should listen to Westlife.....they have the best love songs ever....:)

Comment by Naima on April 26, 2009 at 1:08am

TIPS 4 Girls/women

How to Make Your Boyfriend/Men Kiss You


1. Brush your teeth (and tongue) well before you get together. There's nothing worse than kissing someone with bad breath, or someone who still has leftovers stuck between their teeth.
2. Break the "touch barrier." Guys hate doing this, so most of the time, you should do it for them.
3. Touch his elbow, hold hands, put a hand on his knee. Breaking this barrier will help both of you get past some of the hangups the two of you may have about physical contact.
4. If you've broken the "touch barrier" on a date, don't be afraid to cuddle, especially if you're at a movie or sitting down in a park. If he really likes you, he'll cuddle back, if he doesn't don't sweat it! He's just nervous.
5. After you start cuddling move your face towards his and glance at his lips and eyes often. If you do this while you're cuddling him closely, it's a turn on for most guys and they get the idea.
6. Be mentally prepared as the moment approaches. Most first kisses happen toward the end of a date. Visualize in your mind what you want to have happen.
7. Look him in the eyes. Smile gently.
8. Smile with your eyes while calmly glancing from his eyes to his lips a couple times.
9. Take a few steps forward and touch his elbow. By this time, he should lean forward.
10. Stare into his eyes deeply and move your head towards him slowly.
11. When he starts to close his eyes, close yours and lean forward slightly. He'll be more than happy to do the work.
12. When you do kiss him, don't rush off to tell everyone. Some guys are shy and won't appreciate you sharing something between the two of you with all your friends. You should never kiss and tell, especially if you don't want everyone to find out!
Sometimes guys don't feel confident enough to make the first move. That's when girls have to step it up if we want it.
13. If all else fails, just tell him you want to kiss. Don't always think that the guys have to make the move. Some guys actually like having girls do some of the first moves!
14. When you hug him goodbye look into his eyes close to his face, and he should lean in

Comment by foreverJCgal E Hadassah on March 12, 2009 at 8:12pm

ANyone seen the new movie "Fire proof", I think it is a must see for everyone in a relationship and those who are already married . Along with the movie is a book called "Love dare". all three(movie,book & novel) available at walmart & bookshops
Wishing you all the best!

Comment by Ninah Essy on November 10, 2008 at 4:28pm

LOVE QUOTES
Loving is not just looking at each other, it's looking in the same direction- Antoine de Saint

Gravitation is not responsible for people falling in love- Albert Einstein

Love - a terribly misunderstood emotion, although highly desirable malfunction of the heart which weakens the brain, causes eyes to sparkle, cheeks to glow, blood pressure to rise and the lips to pucker.,
You have to walk carefully in the beginning of love; the running across fields into your lover's arms can only come later when you're sure they won't laugh if you trip- Jonathan Carroll

Who, being loved, is poor? - Oscar Wilde

Time is too slow for those who wait, too swift for those who fear, too long for those who grieve, too short for those who rejoice, but for those who love, time is eternity- Henry Van Dyke

Take away love and our earth is a tomb-Robert Bro

Love makes your soul crawl out from its hiding place- Zora Neale Hurston

Love is a game that two can play and both win by loosing their heart- Eva Gabor.

We don't believe in rheumatism and true love until after the first attack- Marie Ebner Von Eschenbach

Love, and a cough, cannot be hid-George Herbert

At the touch of love and heart, everyone becomes a poet- Plato

Nobody has ever measured, even poets, how much a heart can hold- Zelda Fitzgerald

Love is only a dirty trick played on us to achieve continuation of the species- W. Somerset Maugham,.

Love is an irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired- Robert Frost
Love is the greatest refreshment in life- Pablo Picasso

Sometimes we make love with our eyes. Sometimes we make love with our hands. Sometimes we make love with our bodies. Always we make love with our hearts Love is a canvas furnished by Nature and embroidered by imagination - Voltaire

"If music be the food of love, play on"- Shakespeare

"It is never too late to fall in love"- Sandy Wilson

Love is not finding someone to live with; it's finding someone you can't live without- Rafael Ortiz

"Where there is love, there is life"-- Mahatma Gandhi

"The heart has its reasons, which reason does not know."-Pascal

"Why is it when you love someone so much that you can never find the right words to tell them?" -alb to Justin

To the world you might be one person, but to one person you might be the world --Unknown

What we love to do we find time to do. --John L. Spalding

There's nothing in this world as sweet as love, and next to love the sweetest thing is hate. --Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

Hatred paralyzes life; love releases it. Hatred confuses life; love harmonizes it. Hatred darkens life; love illumines it --Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.

A mother's love for her child is like nothing else in the world. It knows no law, no pity, it dares all things and crushes down remorselessly all that stands in its path --Agatha Christie (1890 - 1976)

Love is life. And if you miss love, you miss life. --Leo Buscaglia

Life without love is like a tree without blossom and fruit. --Khalil Gibran

Comment by Ninah Essy on November 10, 2008 at 2:05pm

LESSONS FOR LOVERS
1.Be your partner's best friend.
2.Help without being asked.
3.Appreciate what you have
4.curdle ealry in the evening before you are too tired
5.YOu can always make more money, but you can never make more time.
6.when you need help speak up
7.Leave your job and its problems at the office.
8.At parties, pay more attention to your patner than anyone else.
9.Always make your partner feel special
10.If you anot sure whether to say something, don't
11.share you feelings
12.Call during the day, just to say, " I love you."
13.Turn TV off and take time to talk together
14.Make having fun together a priority
15.Say positive affirmations abut each other and your relationship.
16.NEVER GO TO BED ANGERY AT YOUR SPOUSE/BOYFRIEND
17.Your sweetheart needs touching and affection in and out of the bedroom
18.Always take each other's feelings in to consideration b4 doing something.
19.Kiss each other every night b4 turning out the lights.
20.Plan together for the future, and then work to make your plans come true.
21. Treat your partner at least as well as you treat your friends Or even better.
22.Brag about each other
23.Turn up the sterio and practice slow dancing
24.when discussions get too hot, call " TIme out"
25.Bring home flowers to your sweetheart
26.When you are conversing,give your undivided attention
27.It takes 72 muscles to frown and only 23 to smile.
28.Visualize a bright future for the two of you.
29.Give gifts that reflect you special knowledge of your partner.
30.Assure your partner often that you care.
31.Look for wha'ts good in your partner and praise it
32.When your partner comes home, drop what you're doing and give a big welcome kiss and hug at the door.
32.Make valentines day- Valentines week!
33. IF you want your mate to understand you, talk about yourself more.
34. For Every Day's "TO DO" List:
~Talk ~ Kiss and Hug
~Listen ~Compliment
~Help out ~Express your love
35.Assure your partner you'll always be there.
36.Spend more time with other cupls with whom you can laugh and joke.
37.When criticism is true, agree with it.
38. Share your fantasies!
39. Be honest with each other.
40. During tough times, think of why you fell in love in the first place. DWELL on those things.
41.Treat each other in an " I'M OK- You're IJ" manner.
42.Express appreciation for favours.
43.Touch more. Touching often expresses sentiments that words alone cannot convey.
44. Base your relationship on your commitment to each other, not on your feelings of love.
That way, as your feelings for each other rise and fall__ as they surely will___your relationship will still be secure.
45. curdle while you watch tv.
46.When your partner makes a mistake, don't say "Itold you"
47.Surprise you mate witha spontaneous kiss
48.Take dance lessons together
49. Every once in a while, baby each other!
50.Just because you are angry does not mean you are right.
51.Treat each other the way you want to be treated.
52.Do what makes your partner feel loved. (Ask if you do not know what that is)
53.Tell your partner when you need extra attention
54.Give a back rub without being asked
55.cherish each other.
56.Buy tickets, but don't say for what. The waiting and the surprise will be almost as much fun as the event.
57.Give your mate"Love Coupons" good for flowers,kisses,messages, etc
58. Make decisions when youare calm, never when youare angry
59.Give lots of hugs
60.Let you mate know its safe to tell you everything
61. View you mate as a companion to enjoy life with_not a possession to ignore
62.When you feel shortchanged, examine whether you have unrealistic expectations
63.Be on the look out to make life more fun
64.Write a poem. It doesn't have to be good it just has to have your feelings in it.
65.Try new restaurants
66.Rather than give good advice, set a good example.
67.Appreciate hard work.
68.Cook your sweetheart's favourite meal
69. Share what life was like when you were children
70.Be gratefulof your partner's love.(remember when you didn't have it?)
71Take vacations often, even if just one night at a bed and breakfast.
72.List all the ways your partner enriches your life. Share you list
73.Find something to like about each other's friends
74.exercise together
75. Help your partner fulfill personal goals
76.View money as belonging to you both, no matter who made it.
77. Tell them things like
~You can do it, You're looking good, How can i help?, I'm proud of you.

Comment by Ninah Essy on November 10, 2008 at 2:02pm

LIFE LESSONS FOR LOVERS
~write things you have been happiest doing together in the past. Do those things more often
~Once in a while, each of you have a day which is "yours." On that day, you get treated extra nice and get to choose what both of you will do.
~Even if its not a holiday, wtite down a love note to your sweetheart
~Meet problems together head on
~ Turn your weaknesses into strengths by filling in where each other is lacking
~Take a bath together (ONly if married lol)
~Overlook each other's flaws-remembering that you have your own.
~Share you dreams
~Don't take each other for granted
~There is no perfect love out there waiting for you. ENJOY THE ONE YOU HAVE
~When you hurt you partner say youa re sorry
~Dress up for each other
~When you present a figt, wrap it beautifully. Your efforts will be appreciated
~You may not always agree, but always hear each other out.
~Teach each other how treat you.
~Avoid comparing youselves with other couples. You'll never know the truth about them, and its wiser to just enjoy your own happiness
~Put each other before all others, including your parents and friends
~Admire each other's achievements
~Thank your partner for compliments and kind gestures -and you will get more of them
~Have your partner be your best friend-not your only friend.
~Never bring up past loves
~Give your love unconditionally
~Be faithful
~Go to bed early and talk in the dark
~Thank your partner for doing household chores
~Focus on the 90% that is right -- not the 10% tha isn't
~Have a professional photo taken of the two of you
~If expressing feelings is hard for you, write them out.
~Curdle, even wehn you do not want sex
~Keep scrapbook of your favourite moments together. Look through it on rainy days.
~Let your partner know you find her attractive
~Its ok to disagree
~When a mate comes home from a trip pua a poster saying "welcome home!"
~Take the phone off the hook during intimate moments
~The best way to encourage your partner to change is to change your self
~Flatter your partner
~When your parnter is almost done bathing, sneak the towel out of the bathroom and ~warm it in the dryer
~Instead of criticizing what you do no like, praise what you like
~ Tackel problems ealry, while they are still small, while there are still lots of good feelings
~Togetherm write out 10things you'd love to do together. Then, get started doing them
~ALWAYS TAKE CARE OF EACH OTHER.

Comment by Ninah Essy on November 10, 2008 at 2:01pm

Oh WOW! so many developments. Ya'll welcome,

Comment by foreverJCgal E Hadassah on November 10, 2008 at 1:23pm

Everyday better living / Understanding Men /
What Men Want From Women
Actually, it’s pretty simple. Deep inside the heart of every man is a secret wish to be trusted. How many times have men said to their wives, “If you would just trust me.” Many men wonder why it seems so difficult for their wives to do something so seemingly simple. The answer stems from the physiological differences between the sexes. It begins at birth when little boys are given a distinct physical advantage over little girls by having higher levels of testosterone. With testosterone comes the physical strength to both defend themselves from danger and/or run away from a threat. Most little girls don’t have that ability. They don’t have the strength to defend themselves in a physically fight when they feel threatened. If a boy trusts someone who in turn hurts them, they can always defend themselves physically (or try to). Little girls don’t have that physical option of power. Since a person can only trust from a position of strength, those same little girls will grow up into women who naturally have a more difficult time “trusting” when they feel vulnerable.So men, when you ask the woman of your choice to simply “trust you,” it’s not that she can’t, she’s just more vulnerable than you. If you want her to trust you, she needs something that will help develop that trust. Perhaps even a tool or gesture that she can “count on” until that trust with you is established. Thankfully this tool already exists and is known every woman. What cultivates trust in a woman is a man who consistently keeps his word. Making a promise is meaningless if there is no follow through. A woman needs to SEE her man fulfill his promises because seeing is always more powerful than hearing. Allow me to illustrate. Imagine someone told you that I was the meanest person they had ever met. For months all you heard was how terrible I treated my family and friends. Then one day you met me and during the course of our meeting you begin to notice that I didn’t seem to be as horrible as you were led to believe. I actually appeared to be rather pleasant. Would you change your entire opinion about me from one visit? Probably not! However, if you saw me respond consistently with kindness and humility over a period of weeks, your opinion of me would begin to change. A paradox has just been established. The kindness you have seen in me for the last few weeks does not match what you have heard about me. All the rumors of how mean I am begin to fade into darkness because of my consistent actions. Over time what you see will replace most if not all of your concerns about my character.Men, when the woman you love sees your words lining up with your actions, trust will naturally follow. When you don’t keep your word it causes your wife/girlfriend to become fearful. From her perspective, she has entrusted you with her Heart and WANTS to trust you. She simply needs your help in giving you what you want

Comment by foreverJCgal E Hadassah on November 10, 2008 at 1:18pm

Sounds like an interesting group. Good job Ninah....

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